Dars e Ahadith-Womens Role

Dars E Ahadith, Shariath

“Bismillahir Rahmannir Raheem”Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu ‘Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma ‘een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)

 “The Prophet of Allah ﷺ said that if a person has three daughters whom he provides for and brings up, God will surely reward him with paradise.” (Kanzal-Ummal).

 “If a daughter is born to a person and he brings her up, gives her a good education and trains her in the arts of life, I shall myself stand between him and hell-fire. (Kanz al-Ummal).

A report from Abu Hurairah says: ‘No believer should be angry towards his wife. If some of her qualities are displeasing, there will be many other qualities worth appreciation.’ (Nail al-Autar).

“Feed them as you feed yourselves, clothe them as you clothe yourselves, and do not beat or scold them.” (Kanz al-Ummal).

When a woman observes the five time of prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity, and obeys her husband, she may enter by any of the gates of paradise she wishes. (Abu Nu’aim).

The lawful thing God hates most is divorce. (Abu Dawud).

Woman’s Pray at Home is better than Going to Mosque

Narrated by Ibn ‘Umar: Allah’s Apostle said: “Do not prevent women (wives, mothers, daughters, sisters, etc) from (praying at) mosques. Yet, their prayer at home is better (for them).”

Woman’s Freedom to Go out for their Needs

Narrated by ‘Aisha: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “You (women) have been allowed to go out for your needs.”

Evils behind Unnecessary Socialising of Unveiled Women

Narrated by Ibn Mas’ud: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “(Unveiled) woman is a cause of corruption. Once she goes out Satan beautifies her in the eyes of men (to seduce her as well as them). At her home, she is the closest (to the face) of her Lord.”

Prohibition on Women Regarding Putting Perfumes when Going out

Narrated by Abu Mousa Al Ash’ari: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “If a woman uses perfume and passes the people so that they may get its odour, she is so-and-so, meaning severe remarks. (i.e. about to commit adultery).”

 

Prohibition on Women regarding showing her Charms when Going out

Narrated by Fudhalah ibn ‘Ubaid: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “Three persons are doomed …. Among them a woman whose husband is not present and provides for her; yet she shows her charms to (foreign) men.”

Women should not travel without Mahram

Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbas: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “A woman should not travel except with a Dhu-Mahram (her husband or a man with whom that woman cannot marry at all according to the Islamic Jurisprudence).” A man got up and said, “O Allah’s Apostle! I intend to go to such and such an army and my wife wants to perform Hajj.” The Prophet said (to him), “Go along with her (to Hajj).”

Women should not walk in the middle of the street

Narrated by Abi Ausaid Al Ansari: While Allah’s Apostle was going out of the mosque he saw all men and women in the road. He told the women: “You should wait behind. You should not walk in the middle of the road.” The narrator said: “women afterwards used to walk so close to the wall so that their dresses often stick to it.”

Women should not speak unnecessarily in the presence of foreign men

Narrated by Abu Huraira : The Prophet ﷺ said, “The saying ‘Sub Han Allah’ is for men and clapping is for women i.e.” (If something happens during the prayer talking is not allowed, except the men can invite the attention of the Imam by saying “Sub Han Allah (i.e. Glorified be Allah )”, and women, by clapping their hands).

Exchange of salutation between men and women once there is no temptation

Narrated by Asmaa: Allah’s Apostle passed by a group of women near the mosque. He waved his hand to them in salutation and said: “Beware of being ungrateful to your husbands, beware of being ungrateful to your husbands.”

Men and women may talk to each other in good intention

Narrated by Anas bin Malik: The Prophet passed by a woman who was sitting and weeping beside a grave and said to her, “Fear Allah and be patient.”

A woman can offer herself in marriage to the righteous man

Narrated by Anas: “A woman came to the Prophet offering herself to him in marriage, saying, “Have you got any interest in me (i.e. would you like to marry me?)” Anas’ daughter said, “How shameless that woman was!” On that Anas said, “She is better than you for, she presented herself to Allah’s Apostle (for marriage).”

When I want to talk to Allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath Ali(ra)

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