Dars e Ahadith-Women Beauty
“Bismillahir Rahmannir Raheem”Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu ‘Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma ‘een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)
A woman should not be married against her will
Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas: A virgin came to the Prophet and mentioned that her father had married her to a man against her will, so the Prophet allowed her to exercise her choice.
A woman is not allowed to promise her husband not to marry after he dies
Narrated by Um Mubashir: Allah’s Apostle proposed to the widow of Al Baraa bin Ma’rour but she told him: “I promised my (dead) husband not to marry after him.” “This promise is not valid,” said the Prophet
A woman should not ask for divorce without a reason
Narrated by Thawban: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said, “Any woman who asks divorce from her husband without a reason, the smell of Paradise is prohibited for her.”
Wives have great duty towards their husbands
Narrated by ‘Abullah bin Abi Awfa: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ Said, “Had I ordered a person to prostrate to someone rather than Allah, I would have ordered the wife to prostrate to her husband. By Allah, who holds the soul of Muhammad in his hands, the wife will not be fulfilling her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for sexual intercourse) while she is on a camel (what means, being busy), she should not disobey him.”
Woman should be grateful to her husband
Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said, “I also saw the Hell-fire and I had never seen such a horrible sight. I saw that most of the inhabitants were women.” The people asked, “O Allah’s Apostle! Why is it so?” The Prophet replied, “Because of their ungratefulness.” It was asked whether they are ungrateful to Allah. The Prophet said, “They are ungrateful to their companions of life (husbands) and ungrateful to good deeds. If you are benevolent to one of them throughout the life and if she sees anything (undesirable) in you, she will say, ‘I never had any good from you.’ ”
Woman should not obey her husband if ordered to do a sin
Narrated by ‘Aisha: An Ansari woman (From the Supportes) gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of the latter started falling out. The Ansari women came to the Prophet and mentioned that to him and said, “Her (my daughter’s) husband suggested that I should let her wear false hair.” The Prophet said, “No, (don’t do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially.”
Woman should not donate from her money unless upon husband’s consent
Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said: “A woman, once married, should ask for husband’s consent if she wants to give away a gift (or donation) from her money.”
Prohibition of changing Allah’s creations unnecessarily
Narrated by ‘Abdullah: Allah has cursed those women who practise tattooing and those who get themselves tattooed, and those who remove their face hairs, and those who create a space between their teeth artificially to look beautiful, and women changing the features created by Allah.
Woman should not wear false hair like Jews
Narrated by Sa’eed bin Al Musayyib: Mu’awiya came to Medina and he addressed us and took out a bunch of hair and said: I never saw but the Jews using this (adding of artificial hair) and I can well recall that when this act would reached Allah’s Messenger ﷺ, he would name it as cheating. In another narration Mu’awiya said one day : Should I tell you the evil make-up. Allah’s Apostle forbade cheating. It was during that time that a person came with a staff and there was a cloth on its head, whereupon Mu’awiya said: Behold, that is cheating. Qutada (the sub-narrator) said: This implies how women artificially increase their hair with the help of rags.
Women should not wear high shoes
Narrated by Abu Sa’eed Al Khudri, Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said :” A Jewish women used to put two wooden legs to lengthen her shoes, so that no one could recognise her, for she was very short.” The Prophet forbade this action that is a kind of cheating others.
Women should not shave their heads
Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbas: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said, “Women do not have to shave their head, only to shorten their hair (i.e. in hajj and other practices)”
Women’s dying their hands and feet with henna
Narrated by ‘A’isha, Ummul Mu’minin: A woman made a sign from behind a curtain to indicate that she had a letter for the Apostle of Allah. The Prophet closed his hand, saying: I do not know this is a man’s or a woman’s hand. She said: No, a woman. He said: If you were a woman, you would make a difference to your nails, meaning with henna.
Women are allowed to wear gold and silk
Narrated Abu Musa Al ‘Ashari: Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said, “Wearing silk (clothes) and gold is no allowed for the males of my Ummah but allowed to the females.”
Women should not imitate men in dress, movements, and way of speech
Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbas: Allah’s Apostle cursed those men who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of women and those women who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of men
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