Wilayat-Sakhi Generous

“Bismillahir Rahmannir Raheem”Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu ‘Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma ‘een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)

Be generous/sakhi ,keep clean heart and be good with others.

Generosity is by hand (helping others with money, against oppression etc etc ) and heart (forgiveness,love,guidance etc etc)

Stingy/misery/bakhil= one who does not see good in others.

Abdals/wali=generosity +they think he/she is better than me.

I/MYSELF is responsible for distance between Allah and creation.

Status/health/wealth given to people are destiny (decision of Allah) ,accountable for rewards/neymat on the day of judgement . be razi/satisfied with what you have.

Wilayat =ahklaq/character (repeated behavior) +heart free from duniya

Ghibat/backbiting=speaking bad in his/her absence .

Bohtan/accusation =saying that which is false.

Speaking about a Muslim in his absence and saying things that he would not like it.

Buhtan or slander means telling lies about him.

Nameemah or malicious gossip means telling one person what another said in order to cause trouble between them. 

Backbiter will gain sins and actual person will lose sins.

Conditions applied for saying its “ghibat”

1.. Mentioned in the absence of the person and were he to know about it he would not like it.

2. Clear Intention of exposing/defaming him or in trying to find defects in him(nafs is involved)

3. Present in a person+ People don’t know about it

ITS NOT GHIBAT

1. No intention of defaming/exposing/finding faults

2. Present in a person+ People know about it

TREATMENT

Best is to avoid speaking in absence.

Don’t specify the name /trait of a person.

Always speak good/praise people in their absence is good.

Always say Allah knows better, but this is my opinion.

Pray for forgiveness/guidance/happiness(dua) for the person about whom you backbite. 

If possible one must apologize to the person whose Ghiība he had done

He must make up for it by speaking well of the person in proportion to the Ghiība he has committed with regard to this person.

Don’t reveal your difficulties in front of others.Allah has hidden some qualities and exposed some qualities of his slave.

Duniya=anything which takes you away from Allah

Ahkirat =that which takes you closer to Allah

I/MYSELF =veil

Shirk =greatest zulm/oppression on self.

Wilayat (protection from sins)

Allah has hidden some qualities and exposed some qualities of his slave.

In case of a wali

Allah covered his wali from all .

exposed to all people.

exposed to selected people(stage of darjaat)

exposed to very selective people (stage of darjaat)

always see his good and see your bad.

Differences cause anger and similarity cause peace (find similarities than differences)

Cleanse the heart from dirt/diseases of heart then Allah will fill his love in your vessel/heart.

Seeking blessings-hz adam (as)

Seeking pleasure-hz  Ibrahim(as)

When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath Ali(ra)

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