Qurb Ahklaq-Way
“Bismillahir Rahmannir Raheem“”Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu ‘Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma ‘een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)
Qurbiat/nearness of allah taala–akhlaaq
How to gain Qurbiat/Nearness of Allah Ta’ala ?
You need 4 things 1.knowledge 2.love 3.akhlaaq 4.nawafil (other than fariaz)
AKHLAAQ
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the heart are called Akhlaaq-e-Hameedah (the Beautiful Attributes):Tauheed, Ikhlaas, Taubah, Muhabbat-e-ilaahi, Zuhd, Tawakkul, Qanaa’at, Hilm, Sabr, Shukr, Sidq, Tafweez, Tasleem, Ridhaa, fanaa, and fanaa-ul-fanaa.
Akhlaaq-e-Baatiniyah related to the Nafs are called Akhlaaq-e-Razeelah (The Despicable Attributes): Tam’a, Toolul amal (greed of longer desires), Ghussah, Daroogh, Gheebat, Hasad, Bukhl, Riyaa, Ujub, Kibr, Hiqd, Hubb-e-maal, Hubb-e-Jaah, Hubb-e-dunya.
The process of
purifying the nafs from these attributes is called Tazkiyah-e-Nafs. In this
regard, Allah Ta’ala says: “He who has made Tazkiyah (purified) his nafs,
verily, he has attained success.”
INTENTION- intention should be to surrender totally to divine will and to gain allah’s pleasure/raza(with affirmation from heart). Will, the act and the power, is solely from allah.
just ignore waswasa/bad thoughts when they arise at the first instance itself.dont disclose it to others keep secreat your ibadah .dont show off.Be in wadhu everytime and fight against nafs/ego/ carnal desires . be away from the world except for genuine needs. display good manners.
keep reciting sunnah suplications/dua like for eating,drinking,sleeping ,awakeing,sneezing ,going to toilet,going to market etc. atleast say bismillah before starting any act.Follow sunnah and keep patience.best ibadah is 5times namaz with jamaat( if you miss jamaat make sure you offer it immediately or atleast cover up with qaza )
Give lot of charity and keep reading qaza namaz regularly.complete 1 quran every month with dua at the end of it .Lot of darood o salam and astaqfar .Fasting- on 13th 14th and 15th every Islamic month and also every Monday and Thursday of the week.Visit graveyard every Thursday or Friday .Do lot of essale sawab.
Each Act or Tasbih or Du’a should begin and terminate with the recital of Durood Shareef and one who wishes for the acceptance of his Du’as should use the Wasila of Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (ﷺ).
If some spiritual condition occurs in your heart or some amazing knowledge enters the heart, don’t get excited our aim is to gain allah’s raza/pleasure (ignore the fantacies) have trust in Allah and present your needs to Him only. Request Allah to grant you steadfastness on the Deen.
ACQUIRING touheed -by contemplating on the weakness of creation
and the power of the Creator.
ACQUIRING IKHLAAS -Elimination of riyaa (show) is precisely the
acquisition of Ikhlaas.
ACQUIRING taubah– shunning the sin, firmly resolving to abstain from it in future and controlling the nafs when it urges for the sin. taubah is Waajib (compulsory). When a sin has been committed, immediately perform two Rak’ats Salaat with the intention of Taubah. One then has to offer repentance with both the tongue and heart.
ACQUIRING khauf -is to meditate of his Wrath and ‘Itaab. Allah Ta’ala will confer him Hidaa’yat (guidance from Allah), Rahmat (mercy), ilm (knowledge) and Ridhaa (contentment) for those who are imbued with the khauf of Allah Ta’ala.
ACQUIRING Razaa– is to reflect about the vastness of Allah’s Rahmat and His Magnificence.
THE REMEDY for anger -Recite: Aa-uozo-Billahi-minash-Shaitaani-Rrajeem.The aggressor should personally apologize in profusion and seek the pardon of the one whom he had wronged.
sit down if you happen to be standing; if you happen to be sitting then lay down. Make wudhu with cold water or drink cold water. Divert your attention by immediately engaging in some other activity, especially reading which is very efficacious in curbing anger. withdraw from the presence of the one who is the target of your anger.
DYING BEFORE DEATH (This is the life which Rasulullah ﷺ desired for his Ummah).These attributes which are in the perfect state in the dying man(as is the position at the time of maut) are:
Taubah (repentance)-to emerge from all evil
zuhd, (abstention)- to shun the world and everything in it
Qanaa’at (contentment)- abstention from lowly desires– to be contented
tawakkul (trust in Allah)- to shun all abnormal worldly agencies
Azlat (solitude)- to sever all ties with creation
Tawajju I’lallaah
(attention directed to Allah Ta’ala)-only Allah Ta’ala attention
sabr (patience)- to shun pleasures
Ridhaa (pleased with Allah)- to abstain from pleasing the nafs
Zikr (remembrance of Allah)- to submit in entirety to Allah Ta’ala
muraaqabah (meditation)-the body is on earth, but the rooh should be directed to the Aakhirah, and be in communion with Allah Ta’ala.
When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath Ali(ra)
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When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath Ali(ra)
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