Aulia -Kissing Black Stone
“Bismillahir Rahmannir Raheem”Al-Hamdu Lillaahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen was Salaatu was- Salaamu ‘Alaa Sayidinaa Muhammadin wa Aalihi wa Asabihi Ajma ‘een (tauheed- risalat- ahkirat and islam-iman-ihsan)
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Kissing is a natural human behaviour. One could kiss someone out of love, respect, honour, desire, or maybe even worship. It depends on your intention – the reason why you do it.
Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, used to kiss the black stone, and thus, by the Prophet’s action one can clearly see that there is a distinction between merely kissing and worshipping.
And even as this stone is the stone from Heaven (as in Nasai, Tirmidhi and Hakim), so are the Prophet sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, and the saints the People of Heaven.
Ibn Asakir in Tarikh Dimashq,al- Subki in Shifa as-Siqam bi-ziyarat Khayr al-Anaam, narrate that when Sayyidina Bilal,radi Allahu `anh, came back to Madinah after many years, he went straight to the Honourable Qabr of Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, and fell down and put his forehead on the Qabr, and kissed it, saying, “Oh my beloved, Rasulullah, sall- Allahu `alayhi wa sallam.”This was an expression of his love for Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam.
Tabarani narrates that Abu Ayyub al-Ansari, radi Allahu `anh, the Great Sahabi, once put his head on the honourable Qabr of Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, and kissed it. The Umayyad ruler, Marwan bin al-Hakam, a notorious man, asked Abu Ayyub why he was worshipping the stone. Abu Ayyub replied that he was visiting Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, and not a stone.
Imam al-Qastalani narrates in his Mawahib Ladunniyyah that when Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, died, his daughter, Sayyidah Fatimah, radi Allahu `anha’, took sand from His Qabr and put it over her face and wept, saying: “Maza ala man shamma Turbata Ahmadin an laa yashumma madaz Zamaani Ghawaliya (The person who has smelt the dust of the Grave of Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, does not need to smell any perfume ever again)
Ibn Hisham narrates that when Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, had passed away, Sayyidina Abu Bakr As-Siddiq, radi Allahu `anh, went to kiss his forehead and said, “How blessed and perfumed are you when you are alive, and how blessed and perfumed are you when you have passed away.”
Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, who instructed us to destroy
all the idols also instructed us to kiss the black stone – not for worship – but
because of the stones closeness to Allah, subhana Hu wa Ta`ala.
We draw an analogy between this stone and the
tombs of the Awliya. just as the shrines of the Awliya are places where Allah’s,
subhanaHu wa Ta`ala, Rahmah descends.
(2/125): “And take Maqam Ibrahim as a place of Prayer” . Maqam
Ibrahim is merely a large slab of stone containing the footprints of Nabi
Ibrahim, `alayhi-s-salam. It is thousands of years old, and is not even
a grave, nor the physical feet of Nabi Ibrahim, `alayhi-s-salam. Is praying
there Shirk or Kufr? If not, then why condemn praying at the tomb of Nabi
Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, and the Awliya of his Ummah?
Imam al-Dhahabi narrates in Majmu’ Shuyukh al-Dhahabi (vol.1 p.72-74) that
the son of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal said to his father that people touch and
kiss the Qabr of Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, to get the
Barakah. Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal replied that there was no problem with that
(la ba’sa bihi).
Imam al-Dhahabi went on to explain that: “Only some of the Sahabah did
this, as the Sahabah had (obviously) seen Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa
sallam, when he was alive, had close interaction with him, kissed his hand,
fought over his Wudu water, distributed his Hair for Barakah, and even took his
spit and rubbing it over their faces (as in Bukhari in clear words). But
those who had not met Nabi Muhammad, sall-Allahu `alayhi wa sallam, express
their love by going to his Qabr, and kissing and touching it”.
Imam al-Ghazali says in his famous work Minhaj al-‘Abideen (p.347) that the
Wali of Allah reaches such a state that: “Allah gives Barakah in his
Breath, Speech, Clothes, Company, places where he sat and even the Sand he
walked on”.
When I want to talk to allah I say prayers and when I want that he talk to me I recite quran- Hazrath Ali(ra)
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